Sunday, August 26, 2007

He and she are naturally opposite viewers. Are they aware of that?

There is a lot of discrepancy between the nature of the man and woman and the way they naturally think. This is the main problem that leads to the miscommunication.
The man looks at the woman from one perspective, her physical equipments. The woman does not like that. She wants him to admire her personality, mind and soul. The woman looks at the man from one angle, his mental capabilities. The man does not like that. He wants her to admire his physical equipments too, and how he does with her in bed (sound ridiculous hah? I am not kidding I swear they ask about that). The man in attracted to the woman’s outside. The woman is attracted the man’s inside. The man loves with his eyes. The woman loves with her ears. The man looks at the woman as the final target of an exhaustive approach. The woman looks at the man as a bridge to other dreams, as just a corner stone in a big building that includes a family, children who satisfy her maternity instinct, independent house that she masters, freedom from the control of the parents, security of her future, stability of her life after her appeal is gone. The man has a tunnel vision and sees only one thing. The woman has an extra wide field of vision that sometimes the man is hardly seen in the picture. If the two just have in their nature more things in common. If at least, at least, at least they become aware and understand that natural difference and work it out, a lot of problems won’t exist.

6 comments:

Egyptiana Trapped Soul said...

i love this post, and your analytical capability to the difference between man and woman

the one thing i perceived from this post, is that men are so closed on themselves... and life mean for them to satisfy their desires

where is the sense in that
they are supposed to support life, but things end up that women are the ones who do so

regards

Egypt Rose said...

it seems like we both think the same , see my post

انا الاصل

He and She said...

Hi Egyptiana, thanks for visiting and commenting. Men are not closed on themselves dear, I wish. Men closed on one thing; SEX

He and She said...

Hi Rose. I went to your blog and I read the post. it is GREAT. There is one thing mentioned by the friends in the comments that does not exist in the post. Probably you deleted it. I wish you did not. This is ( I guess) " Women are the sole resposible for the success of the relation. THAT IS SO TRUE. You make the life and you break it. You are the one who manage all aspects of the relation. I believe that if the family is happy it is the woman and if the family is miserable it is the woman too. The woman can fix all the deficiencies in her man, unfortunately the opposite is not true. In regards to the family issues the woman in the creative party. The woman in the solution because the woman by nature has the master key

Egyptiana Trapped Soul said...

Sex = self satisfaction = themselves :)

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He and She said...

Now i know what you meant. Thanks for the explanation