Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Honest Confession
What can I do to make you feel me?What do I do to make you understand how much I need you
Personality Components
What makes us stay happy together and accomodate one another as lovers, friends, partners, husband and wife is the degree of harmony that naturally exists in our personality traits. How we chemically reacts. What results would be when we mix the components of our personalities: our beliefs, our values, our thresholds, our likes and dislikes, our attitude toward things in life, our IQs, our insight. Each one of those is a big chapter. One has to test those components pretty well before one goes into a committed relation
Here is two typical examples of failure to accomodate
I have a friend with limited resources who was living with his wife and two kids one day up and two days down. One night his wife showed him an expensive gold bracelet. She said that she found it on the edge of the balcony and said to him “It is sent to us from God. let us sell it and solve our financial problems” He didn’t say anything. He just grabbed the phone. Called all the neighbors who live above him, one by one. One of the neighbors cried when he asked her and told him that she lost a gold bracelet a month ago. Her child threw it from the balcony and she never found it in the street. He told her that they found it and he went upstairs to give it to her. He came to his wife and told her” did you expect me to feed my kids from stolen stuff? Enti Tale2…Tale2…Tale2”. That marriage would definetely lived if the man has the same personality like the woman.
Another friend. Events happened on day 27 after his marriage. At that night he asked his newly wed wife to fake a scenario when he sleeps with her. He asked her to keep saying these words because it stimulate him more. He wanted her to say things like “ la2 ya sidi, balash keda wel nabi, alla el hanem meratak teshofna, ana set metgawweza ya baih, 7aram 3alek, matefda7neesh, ya kharabi ! 3aib ya sidi keda, beta3ak kebeer awi ya baih, beyoga3ni….etc….” She refused. The next day she packed and left forever. That marriage again could live if she shares him the same personality. I am narrating those two stories as honest copies of the original that was mentioned by those two men
Here is two typical examples of failure to accomodate
I have a friend with limited resources who was living with his wife and two kids one day up and two days down. One night his wife showed him an expensive gold bracelet. She said that she found it on the edge of the balcony and said to him “It is sent to us from God. let us sell it and solve our financial problems” He didn’t say anything. He just grabbed the phone. Called all the neighbors who live above him, one by one. One of the neighbors cried when he asked her and told him that she lost a gold bracelet a month ago. Her child threw it from the balcony and she never found it in the street. He told her that they found it and he went upstairs to give it to her. He came to his wife and told her” did you expect me to feed my kids from stolen stuff? Enti Tale2…Tale2…Tale2”. That marriage would definetely lived if the man has the same personality like the woman.
Another friend. Events happened on day 27 after his marriage. At that night he asked his newly wed wife to fake a scenario when he sleeps with her. He asked her to keep saying these words because it stimulate him more. He wanted her to say things like “ la2 ya sidi, balash keda wel nabi, alla el hanem meratak teshofna, ana set metgawweza ya baih, 7aram 3alek, matefda7neesh, ya kharabi ! 3aib ya sidi keda, beta3ak kebeer awi ya baih, beyoga3ni….etc….” She refused. The next day she packed and left forever. That marriage again could live if she shares him the same personality. I am narrating those two stories as honest copies of the original that was mentioned by those two men
Don't know where to go !
Waiting for someone or something to show you the way......then one day you find ten years have got behind you.....No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun......And you run and you run to catch up with the sun, but its sinking.....And racing around to come up behind you again......The sun is the same in the relative way, but now your older..... still waiting for someone or something to show you the way....
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