Sunday, October 28, 2007

The Happiest Couple

The happiest couple are not the rich successful gentleman and the pretty sweet educated young lady though what they have seems to qualify them for a happy everlasting shared life yet that is not true. I see other things that guarantee the mutual happiness. Let me count what I thought of according to their importance to me
1- Shared moral and ethical standards and that it totally independent of the social level
2- Similarity of beliefs
3- Matching personality type. Introvert; extrovert etc..
4- Lots of shared interests, naturally not made up
5- Closeness of ethnic background
6- Uniformity of the future dreams
7- Shared degree of personal flexibility and tolerance, even if both are short tempered
8- Closeness of the social level
9- Matching level of education
10- Reasonable difference of age

Do you have a different set of priorities? Do you care about something I didn't mention?

Kalam el Nas - Concert

Saturday, October 27, 2007

The dilemma of being a woman

From the beginning of life to now to the end of the world the woman will be a symbol. A symbol of beauty, youth, compassion, care, love, serenity, obedience, patience, submission and million other things that finely detail that symbol. However among those details the woman knows that the gate to her happiness starts from her physical beauty. All the doors easily opened for the pretty young woman. The dream man always looks first for the pretty young woman. Among her peers the good jobs are taken by the pretty young woman. Beauty always comes first. It is the permit, the pass, the ticket then later the audient look for other things. Beauty is not the skin color or the eyes’ color or the smile or the gait style or the body proportions. The woman’s beauty is a pleasant feeling that the observer man feels. That feeling initiates an intense desire into the man to approach and have that woman. It is a challenge. Unfair challenge to every woman and every woman knows that, though some deny and argue. It is unfair because not every woman has the same inborn level of physical beauty and the one that has less level needs to expose more. Humiliating right?. One might know a wonderful woman, educated, sweet, compassionate, loving and has many personal potentials that qualify her to be a happy, pleasing successful life partner but can not find her chance. On the other hand the appealing woman might have a lot of bad things but her beauty always support her. That is the Magnet. Not necessarily a magnet to have a husband. It is sometimes the magnet to find a job; to survive. I am not going to talk about the know-how. Every girl knows what things make the woman physically appealing that is not the point. The point is the frustration every girl feels since her age of awareness. The splitting of herself that she has to live all her life. One fights to develop herself as a good person and the other fights to be physically attracting to catch the train.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Why we were born like that

She likes a smooth steady begining
He might rush to say " I love you" in the first date
She likes to test him is all aspects of personality
He always fail
She is detailed oriented and organized
He is rushy and arrogant
She like a stable life time relation cause it took her a big deal to choose him
He like to jump from a relation to the next
She always thinks of tomorrow
He thinks only of today
She is cooperative and sharing
He is tyrant and dictator
She likes a prolonged forplay
He immediately want to jump
She likes a warm afterplay, a touch that means" you pleased me so much"
He: immediately turns his back or maybe leaves the whole room.
Sometimes I think like those who say " only her needs that make her tolerate that differene likewise only his need that makes him tolerate that difference

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Allah yekhreb beto...El Fa2r

She: Zane2ni lai keda
He: 3alashan ma tehrabeesh menni
She: Mosh 3ayezni ahrab?
He: Tab3an
She: Khalas, netgawwez 3alashan tedmanni ganbak 3ala tool
He: Netgawwez. Bas lamma tetkhani showayya el awwel, 3alashan...
She: da enta kont metddahwel 3alaya el khamees el fat. Delwa2ti ba2eet kohka?
He: Ana bas ba a3aksek.. da enti ro7i wa albi
She: Khalas, ta3ala kallem baba
He: Aollo aih
She: yabroodak ya akhi
He: Khalas, abayyad oda 3nd ommi wa netgawwez feha
She: 3and ommak?
He: tb ya3ni neroo7 feen?
She: Sha22ah mafroosha
He: le7ad emta
She:Ma3rafsh

Every woman seeing herself in the mirror

Ya khabar...de Masr etghayyaret khales

Reminds me of my English teacher

That is the end of anyone who tries to make fun of the religious symbols