Saturday, November 3, 2007

Marriage

The real marriage should be for one single reason; the shared desire to have children, enjoy raising them and have them completing the life cycle. You just choose someone you like that share you that desire. Marriage shouldn't be because of the mere love that might die away one day. Marriage shouldn't be because you are looking for a man to support you, protect you or tet3ay2i beeh. Marriage shouldn't be because you want to guarantee an available sex with a partner that is always there for you or a cheap life time servant. Marriage shouldn't be for the companionship because one is worried to get old and been lonely. All those reasons that people claim can be fulfilled by someone without marriage. People claim those reasons because they are scared not to find a partner if they get old. However those claims shouldn't be the reason. Marriage is a contract that two people of the opposite sex decided to bear the resposibility of having a new generation carrying their genes. The contract and committment is necessary only because a helpless third party is involved; the child. Without that third part marriage would become a restraining chain

Friday, November 2, 2007

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

7etet tarab to7fa. Wonderful couple ( before Om a7mad mat2oom tor2os)

Ayooo 3l ghaba

The most vicious and malginant strategy to hunt a lover

1- Choose the Right Target
Study your prey thoroughly. The right targets are those for whom you can fill a void. The perfect target allows for the perfect chase.
2- Create a False Sense of Security - Approach Indirectly
The seduction should begin at an angle so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you. Haunt the periphery of your target's life.
3- Send Mixed Signals
A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates as it confuses.
4- Appear to Be an Object of Desire
Make your targets hungry to possess you. It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention.
5- Create a Need - Stir Anxiety and Discontent
A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced.
6- Master the Art of Insinuation
Create a sublanguage - bold statements followed by retraction and apology, banal talk combined with alluring glances. make everything suggestive.
7- Enter Their Spirit
Play by your targets' rules. In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
8- Create Temptation
Lure the target by creating a glimpse of the pleasures to come.
9- Keep Them in Suspense
The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, you spell on them is broken. Give the target a thrill with a sudden change of direction.
10- Use the Power of Words to Sow Confusion
The trick to making people listen is to say what they want to hear. Flatter them.

11- Pay Attention to Detail
Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious. The subtle gestures and the offhand things you do are often more charming.
12- Poeticize
Your Presence - Intrigue your target by altering an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences.
13- Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability
Too much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger.
14- Confuse Desire and Reality
Create the Perfect Illusion - Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding a victim's powers of reason.
15- Isolate the Target
Take your targets away from their normal milieu, friends, family, home. With no outside support, an isolated person is easily led astray.
16- Prove Yourself
One well-timed action that shows how far you are willing to go to win your target over will dispel doubts.
17- Effect a Regression
People who have experienced a certain kind of pleasure in the past will try to repeat or relive it.
18- Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo
People yearn to explore their dark side. Take your targets further than they imagine - the shared feeling of guilt and complicity will create a powerful bond.

19- Use Spiritual Lures
Everyone has doubts and insecurities about their physical presence. Lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual.
20- Mix Pleasure with Pain
The greatest mistake in seduction is being too nice.
21- Give Them Space to Fall
The Pursuer is Pursued - Hint that you are growing bored. Seem interested in someone else. Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced.
22- Use Physical Lures
Targets with active minds are dangerous. Put their minds gently to rest and waken their dormant senses by combining a non-defensive attitude with a charged sexual pleasure.
23- Master the Art of the Bold Move
Don't give the target time to consider the consequences. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.
24- Beware the After-effects
Never let the other person take you for granted. Use absence, create pain and conflict, to keep the seduced on tenterhooks.


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Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Mid life crisis

She: Why? why? what is bad did I do? what is good didn't I do? Tell me. Why you let your childish foolish desire to ruin the family. I paid all my life for my family. I need to know now why? why? We have been having sex for years. My first time was with you when I was 18. You enjoyed the young woman of me. I can't stay young forever to stop you from fooling around with young girls. I just can't. I am human. I gave you my life when I was a young flower and when I became a mother of three kids. I am your life. I made you. I support you. I keep that family. I maintain that house. Everything is me. I still remember when I was sitting with you long boring hours to watch sex movies to make you feel I share you the same dirty interest. I am the one who was taking care of you from day one to now, your needs are my to do list. Your wishes are the dreams that i fight to make them true. Give me one reason. Why you cheated on me. Why you contaminate our crystal clear love relation. Did I ever neglect your needs? any need? Tell me, maybe I am worng. Tell me why you punished me for my love and honest care. Tell me if I left with the kids today how you gonna live. We are both 45 years old now. Our dreams are different. Our desires are more mature. Why with one incident you want to prove to me that bitter feeling. That I have been living all those years with an immature man. If my breasts are not up and full anymore then you need somebody to remind you that you penis is not stiff enough anymore to go through me. How did you slep with her. You took the blue pill to deceive yourself that you are still a horney boy? Did she know that you have diabetes and I am the one who inject you with the insulin every morning. Did she know that you are being laid off from work by the end of the year. How you gonna spend on her? from my salary? say something. Don't kill me with your silence. recall my life with you, watch it like a video tape and tell me what year, what month, or what day or even what hour you wasn't cared of by my love. I am not gonna destroy the family for a stupid incident like this, not for me but for the kids. However you lost my respect. You are not my lover and my respected husband anymore. You preferred to be seen all your life like a pig.

Bravo ya 7abebti. Ya tara mama fel beat walla tela2eha mama el bet sawwarek. Maho este7ala yekon baba