What do you think could be my rationale behind saying that? I tell you. There is a red line for everything in life. Everyone has to be able to see how far he/she is from that red line. Crossing that red line should mean to you that you will lose and you are the one to blame. Every one knows that if you pass by a street dog who is eating you should keep a distance otherwise he would get provoked and bite you. Then dont blame the dog. If a police officer stopped your car and asked for your license then he commented that you violated some law then you rather apologise. if you tell him that your uncle is a big officer and you dont care then he will rip your license into small pieces and throw it in the air. Don't blame the officer, blame yourself. There are million example of people forgetting themselves and cross the red line. If you felt that the argument with your husband reached a critical point then you should learn how to stop pushing and cut it off . That will spare yourself a situation where he can rush and hurt you. The man has only his physical power to use against you. You have many other weapons. Any respectful people of any sex who get involved in an argument should learn how to quit when it reaches a critical level
Thursday, September 13, 2007
If a man beat a woman I don't blame the man. I blame the woman
What do you think could be my rationale behind saying that? I tell you. There is a red line for everything in life. Everyone has to be able to see how far he/she is from that red line. Crossing that red line should mean to you that you will lose and you are the one to blame. Every one knows that if you pass by a street dog who is eating you should keep a distance otherwise he would get provoked and bite you. Then dont blame the dog. If a police officer stopped your car and asked for your license then he commented that you violated some law then you rather apologise. if you tell him that your uncle is a big officer and you dont care then he will rip your license into small pieces and throw it in the air. Don't blame the officer, blame yourself. There are million example of people forgetting themselves and cross the red line. If you felt that the argument with your husband reached a critical point then you should learn how to stop pushing and cut it off . That will spare yourself a situation where he can rush and hurt you. The man has only his physical power to use against you. You have many other weapons. Any respectful people of any sex who get involved in an argument should learn how to quit when it reaches a critical level
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yes u oughta blame the woman for everything...women suck actually and i believe they should be heavily beaten :D
well 1st i would like to say : nice blog and its my first visit w keda... bas seriously its different
abt ur comment abt leila... i was just struggling for more freedom.. they wont let me go man !
i dont wanna harass men or chase anyone... let women burn :D (i've had enough of them)
Hi,
Wait, wait, wait, this is not right, man will do it even if she is fine with him, this is a very classic view, if you stay far from troubles they will never come to you? What if I walk in the street and saw this dog , going far away from him , Although it comes and bit me?
Usually woman accept man’s violence because he is the only financial resource to her, if she says no to him in any thing , I mean it any thing he will kick her out from home without any right, and without any money to raise her kids, after he insist that she shouldn’t work after marriage and to quit her career.
Life her in Egypt is not this easy Safwat , the relation between man and woman become like master and slave, I’m not talking about my self for sure cause I have career and personality, and my husband would of think twice before addressing any argument issues, some how I do not let things bad happen or cause any troubles for him, I’m quiet, I have a lot to do, I’m like train walking in line coming in the same time doing the same things so no one can feel me around.
Safwat Do you have Ramadan as well in USA, what state you are living in?
Batabeet. Ahlan wa sa7lan. Noorek ghatta 3ala el kahraba. sharrafti ya hanem ( I do that always at the first visit then later I am gonna beat you)
First, dont patronize me, that is really irritating because I didnt say anything of what you said. I was straight a logic
bossi ba2a regarding your struggle. Because I know what I am saying pretty well, any woman can do ANYTHING SHE WANTS. ANYTHING. The woman has unlimited number of reasons for excuse. She knows when, where, and how to do it safely and enjoy it. I dont wanna shock you with all I have been through. Don't argue please, please, because I know you can and you do ( like any other woman)anything you WANT. It is just you do it secretly and the fight now is to make it public.
Egypt rose, hey, that is not you that I know. who say that. You are a woman who lives the reality. If you stay far enough from the troubles they won't come to you simply because there are others closer to the troubles than you. There is no violance witout a trigger, simply dont be the trigger. I didnt mention " kick her out" I said physically abuses her, beats her. It is different. The woman should stop before that humiliating point. The career woman has always been in trouble. The man accept that only for the financial need of assistance. If he is reliable he won't accept a partner that comes late at night tired and exhausted then tell him " Don't touch me, I am dead" or give herself but can not respond simply because she is tired. Every successful man wants a partner who is dedicated for him and for their kids if any as far as he is dedicated for her and her kids too. I work hard to make your life pleasurable and secured. You are expected to give care and dedication in return
LOL i dont wanna argue either....i just am fed up with women/gurls lately...I love and enjoy ur blog !
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