The problem of the common sense

Most of the problems that happen between He and She are due to the fact that each of them have a predetermined set of expectations from the other, and when that doesn’t happen the hell comes on earth. When someone asks “Why” the answer comes “ it is a common sense”. The woman requires the man to understand her code of likes and dislikes and when he does not do as her expectations she got mad, sad and frustrated. She never even tell him why. The man expects from the woman the same thing, to satisfy his male code though he never explained to her. When you ask he tells you” Doesn’t she watch movies and TV, doesn’t she see what good women do to their men, it is a common sense”. No it is not. Things shouldn’t be taken for granted if both have different nature. He and she should maturely sit together and list it to one another. What are each one’s good expectations from the other. Then at least there won’t be problems of misunderstanding.